Life is busy around our house. The calendar might not be full. And most days the kids and I only go to Sonic for a coke, but just all the everyday stuff keeps us running. There is really no way to understand how time consuming having kids is until you've done it. The job is 24/7.
Although the kids keep me running, I still want to do things for others too. But most volunteer work at church is impossible because I couldn't really do anything with the three kids with me. And I can't go visit someone or be with them at the hospital, because bringing three kids along will cause more stress than help!
So what can I do??
I believe with all my heart that at this time in my life that my calling is to care for my family. Other moms ask me how I'm doing because they know how hard taking care of little ones is. But I'm not the first to have little ones to care for and I won't be the last! I won't sit at home and feel sorry for myself because of how hard things are, because I have so many blessings in my life.
So how can I be a blessing to others when I can't " go " to them or do things.
Prayer.
Over the last few years I have really come to know how precious the gift of prayer is. The number of people around me going through difficult times seems to keep growing, and that gives me more and more things to bring before the Lord.
I do not get up early every morning for "quiet time". I don't get much sleep with a baby around and kids that get up early. I pray all day long. Whenever I think of a person or situation that needs prayer, I lift it up to the Lord. I recently printed
this for my fridge- and this verse has become one of my favorites.
"Because He inclined His ear to me, therefore I will call on Him as long as I live." Psalm 116:2
In my darkest moments I have felt The Lord wrap me in His arms. I believe He will do the same for others struggling, and so I lift them up.
So I'll continue my crazy days as wife and mommy. And when I can't "go" and "do" for others- I will pray.
For all you other moms out there that can't "do" much, you can pray :)